Facing an unexpected pregnancy can be overwhelming, especially when thinking about how to share the news with your partner. It’s important to know that you have complete control over your decisions. Legally, there is no requirement to inform your partner about your pregnancy or your choice to seek an abortion.
At Care Net LVNM, we’re here to support you through this process. We offer no-cost, confidential pregnancy services and a caring environment where you can explore your options with our compassionate team.
Why Might You Choose Not to Tell Your Partner?
You may not feel comfortable sharing your decision with your partner for many reasons, and your feelings are completely valid.
One of the most serious concerns could be your safety. If you feel your partner may react violently, it’s important to prioritize your well-being. Contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 800-799-SAFE or call 9-1-1 if you are in immediate danger. You deserve to feel safe.
Even if safety isn’t an issue, you might be concerned that sharing the news could increase your anxiety or emotional distress, which is a valid reason to keep the decision private.
Why You Might Consider Telling Your Partner
Although there’s no obligation to tell your partner, there are potential benefits to having an open conversation.
Your partner may initially feel shocked or anxious, but discussing the situation could lead to greater understanding, particularly if you’re in a caring relationship. If your partner is supportive, sharing the decision may also provide the opportunity to explore other options, such as adoption or parenting.
Think about how you’d feel if the roles were reversed—would you want to be included in the decision? Sometimes, transparency can strengthen the bond in a relationship, even in challenging situations.
Ultimately, while this discussion can be helpful, the final decision about your pregnancy remains yours alone.
Receive No-Cost Support and Ultrasound Referrals
No matter what decision you’re considering, you don’t have to face it alone. Care Net LVNM is here to provide the information you need to make an informed choice. While we don’t perform or refer for abortions, we offer details about abortion procedures, potential side effects, and associated risks.
We provide no-cost pregnancy services, including pregnancy testing, referrals for ultrasounds, and material support.
Contact us to schedule a confidential appointment today. We’re here to support you every step of the way.